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 Coaching For Rebels

Break Your Cycle...Live YOUR Truth

 

Most people keep living by scripts written for them—chasing approval, numbing their pain, playing roles they never chose.

But...

You’re being called to something different.
 
This is your call to rebellion.
 
Not rebellion against the world, but rebellion for yourself.
 
The courage to stop performing. The courage to stop hiding. The courage to live real.

You see...

 

This isn’t about chasing some shinier version of yourself. It’s about becoming more real. More rooted. More alive.

📚 No empty self-help promises.​
🌀No bypassing the work.

😁 No toxic positivity.​

💩 No bullshit - ever.

Who I Am

​I’m Gary Lougher — coach, guide, and author of Rewilding Your Soul.
 
For years, I chased every promise of healing. I strived. I manifested. I bent myself into spiritual shapes trying to rise above my pain.
 
And here’s what I finally learned:
I was never broken.
The real wound was believing I had to escape my humanity to be whole.
 
That’s the lie.
 
Wholeness isn’t some prize you earn by transcending the mess of life.
It’s the rebellion of turning toward it. Of reclaiming what’s been buried under silence, shame, and performance.

That’s what I call the Second Ascent.

Why My Approach Is Different

I’m trained as both a Trauma Recovery Coach and a Deep Health Coach.
 
But here’s the thing: that doesn’t mean this work is only for people with severe trauma, or that health is just about gym routines and green smoothies.
 
Trauma and health live on a spectrum. Sometimes it looks like the big stuff—loss, abuse, burnout. More often, it hides in the quieter ways we learned to cope, perform, or survive: the perfectionism, the over-responsibility, the subtle ways we trade truth for safety.
 
What my training gives me isn’t a bag of tricks. It’s the ability to:

Cut past surface level habits and get to the root.

Work with your nervous system, not against it.

Work with you to create Deep Health along the physical, emotional, relational, environmental, existential and mental aspects of well-being.

Hold space that’s safe enough for honesty and strong enough for real change.

 

The Invitation

This isn’t traditional coaching.

It's a conversation with your real self—the one that was never broken. Just buried.
If you’re feeling the pull to return to your own voice…

If you’re done with spiritual bypass and ready to live something honest… ​​​​
I work with people who are done performing and pretending.
 
I don’t offer programs—I build coaching relationships as unique as the person sitting across from me.
If you’re ready for deep, lasting change, I’m all in—but you have to be, too.

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It’s a big decision—and it should be.

That’s why I created a free mini-course to help you slow down, get honest, and explore whether coaching is right for you.

No pressure. Just perspective.


👉 Explore the Course Is Coaching for Me?

Or are you ready to jump right in?

👉  Complete the Coaching Alignment Form



 

 

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